Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content, when deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again. The so-called 'comfort' of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying."ĥ. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years.
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"Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result."Ĥ. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. "Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. I wish I'd had the courage to express my feelings. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence."ģ. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. Our promise to our patients is 'We personalize our care and treat you like family'. We are looking for an outstanding nurse case manager (RN) to join our team. They missed their children's youth and their partner's companionship. Posted: FebruFull-Time Moments Hospice is a locally owned and operated hospice. "This came from every male patient that I nursed. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it." Most people had not honoured even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made. Moments Hospice Jobs in Saint Croix Falls Hiring Post a Job Find Jobs Filter your search results by job function, title, or location. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me. Here are the top five regrets of the dying, as witnessed by Ware:ġ. "When questioned about any regrets they had or anything they would do differently," she says, "common themes surfaced again and again."
Ware writes of the phenomenal clarity of vision that people gain at the end of their lives, and how we might learn from their wisdom.
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